Week 6

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The final week of the course — listen to it when you are already back together, so as not to repeat old mistakes.

Sometimes it turns out that the guy cared about the 'sporting challenge' rather than the relationship itself — then it is worth honestly acknowledging this and carefully ending the relationship.

Keep variety in physical intimacy: more often give her what she simply loves, occasionally — what delights her, and don't let it become routine.

Communication should be healthy, measured, and mindful: when you are with her — be truly with her, without autopilot and half-listening.

Don't lose your leading position: a woman comfortably follows a leader, but leadership is not shouting and tyranny — it is calmness, humor, and confidence.

A woman leaves when she has 'outgrown' the man: make her feel that you are leading her by the hand and continuing to grow together with her.

If the result has not been achieved: check the quality of following the instructions, be patient (a normal timeframe is 2–3 weeks to 2–3 months); if fully blocked — pause for 1–1.5 months and repeat the steps from week one.

You cannot move too slowly — there are only actions that are too fast; do everything gradually.

Diagram: who does what — текстовая версия

1. L → M: Congratulates on getting the girl back
2. L → M: Reminds: do not repeat old mistakes
3. M: Honestly checks his feelings
4. M → W: Carefully and gradually ends the relationship
5. M → W: Mindful presence in communication without autopilot
6. M → W: Variety in intimacy and everyday life
7. M → W: Calm leadership with humor and confidence
8. W → M: Feeling that he leads her by the hand
9. W → M: I can't imagine myself with anyone but you
10. M → L: Asks for a consultation by email
11. L → M: Corrects mistakes in the specific situation
12. M: Pause of 1-1.5 months if she has blocked him
13. M → W: Repeats the steps from week one
14. W → M: Gradual rapprochement

Diagram: order of steps — текстовая версия

1. A1[The girl came back] → A2{Honest question: do I really need her?}
2. A2 → (The sporting challenge has passed) A3[Carefully end the relationship without hurting her]
3. A2 → (Yes I love her) A4[Develop intimacy and variety]
4. A4 → A5[Give her what she loves every day]
5. A5 → A6[Sometimes delight her]
6. A6 → A7[Mindful communication without autopilot]
7. A7 → A8[Be truly with her when you are together]
8. A8 → A9[Hold the leading position]
9. A9 → A10[Calmness humor confidence without shouting]
10. A10 → A11[Lead her by the hand and develop yourself]
11. A11 → A12[She feels: this is the man]
12. A12 → A13[Long happy relationship]
13. A9 → A14{Is she completely out of contact?}
14. A14 → (Yes) A15[Pause of 1-1.5 months]
15. A15 → A16[Repeat the steps of weeks 1-6 slowly]
16. A14 → (No but stuck at a stage) A17[Stay at the current stage longer]
17. A17 → A18[Find the mistake or write to the course author]
18. A18 → A9