Week 2
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The Week 1 letter almost always gets a positive response or curious silence — the author has never seen a negative reaction.
Male attractiveness is determined not by looks or money but by behavior: leadership, confidence, control of the situation.
The task of this week is to signal high status and show no interest in her (contact — only from Week 3, flirting).
Money, gifts, showing off your job/car don't work — they only attract those who want to exploit you.
You need to spark light jealousy: socialize with different girls (not just one), but don't close her 'way back' to you.
Reach out only with humor and light teasing (like a big brother with a younger sister), never with 'hi, how are you'.
In shared company — be the most positive and socially active, don't take her bait and don't show emotions.
Tenderness and flowers are for the stage when the relationship is already restored; right now they are out of place.
Diagram: who does what — текстовая версия
- D → M: Checked the letter was sent
- M → E: Week 1 letter
- E → M: Positive reply or silence
- M → O: Actively socializes with different girls
- O → E: Rumors and social media posts
- E → M: Interest and light jealousy
- M → E: Starts contact with a joke and a tease
- E → M: Provocation or accusation
- M → E: Calm reaction with humor
- D → M: Advice course How to flirt with an ex
- D → M: Personal consultation by email
Diagram: order of steps — текстовая версия
- Make sure the letter was sent → Wait for a reply or silence
- Wait for a reply or silence → Understand the task of showing high status
- Understand the task of showing high status → Give up on money gifts and showing off
- Give up on money gifts and showing off → Socialize with different girls spark jealousy
- Socialize with different girls spark jealousy → Show no interest in her yet
- Show no interest in her yet → Start contact with a joke not with hi how are you
- Start contact with a joke not with hi how are you → Tease her like a younger sister
- Tease her like a younger sister → Show up in shared hangouts radiate positivity
- Show up in shared hangouts radiate positivity → Ignore her provocations without emotions
- Ignore her provocations without emotions → Hold leadership gently and with humor
- Hold leadership gently and with humor → Wait for signals of her interest
- Wait for signals of her interest → Prepare for flirting in week 3
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